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List of Local Southern California (SoCal) Sex & Swingers Clubs

  • California (CA) > Southern California (SoCal)
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  • California (CA) > Southern California (SoCal)
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  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • IF you have found this page then you have been hand-picked  and invited to join the most discreet  elite, covert, exceptionally exciting, mind opening, and fear conquering, MEMBERS ONLY (LIFESTYLE)  club that  effortlessly takes you to the fantasy  world of hedonism where UNICORNS are real and organically fed BULLS roam freely. We welcome the HOTTEST married couples, dating couples, same sex couples, Trans-women, polyamorous pods, single women, & *selected* single men (SINGLE MEN ARE HAND PICKED AND INTERVIEWED before membership is approved )  All of our events are PRIVATE and NDA’s MUST be signed by every member at each event. Our motto is “what happens here, never happened” & RESPECT is our #1 rule. All of our members are young, private elite professionals, athletes, entertainers, businessmen businesswomen, and business owners, therefore, DISCRETION is our…
  • Orange > Orange City
  • On-premises parties for couples, BYOB. Find more people to share your interests with!
  • Ventura > Ventura City
  • Pangaea Club In Ventura with a very sensually charged Atmosphere, “This is not a Takeover”, there will be vanillas (regular) non-lifestylers there, we will have the private VIP room but we will share the dancefloor and regular club area, that means all naughtiness is off premise at a hotel, house, or car.
  • San Diego > El Cajon City
  • bi-weekly hold parties in private club in southern San Diego welcome couples and single females. Membership and entrance fee required.
Anything Island
ASYX parties
  • Orange > Orange City
  • Californian club moving from one house to another, as different couples host parties every week. $40 entrance fee for couples, $20 – ladies, $65 – single men.
Attraction Events
Bi Curious Men Socal
  • Los Angeles > Inglewood City
  • Intended mainly for couples and single women to find out more about one of the oldest and largest lifestyles in the world. On-premises.
  • Riverside > Temecula City
  • Events and Venues for Lifestyle Couples and Single Females to Come Together and Have a Good Time!! Our Events range from parties, wine-tasting, dinners to support local restaurants, charity events, impromptu get-togethers, motorcycle rides and monday night football get-togethers.
Cherry Box
  • Los Angeles > Van Nuys
  • The Cherry Box Club is a unique concept for SoCal Couples involved in open relationships. We hold fantastic sexual events that enable you to meet MANY other couples and singles. Exclusive The Cherry Box Club is a Private, Members Only, Sex Positive, Social Club.  We strive to provide an environment where you can enjoy the beauty of letting go…. Premier Adult Entertainment Community You do it, I do it, everyone is doing it or wants to be doing it!  There is a time and place for everything, and for the sexiest stuff, the time is now and the place is with the club! Cherry Box Club Amenities Hostess drinks, gifts and treats! Food from a professional chef Midnight Ice Cream Social Male…
Classy Entertainment 4 Us
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Come to join to Classy Entertainment 4 Us – the best swinger parties in los angeles & the south bay we are located in San Pedro, CA Please be advised! There will be no filming of any kind at Classy Entertainment 4 Us events of new comers! only by request from our regular guest and only done by the host! Welcome you all to the best swinger lifestyle house parties. https://www.youtube.com/embed/rSOOwKY81tg Classy Entertainment 4 Us is a Los Angeles Adult Entertainment group. Husband and Wife team G & Roxy. We host Huge Swinger House Parties on Weekends, and on Wednesdays during the afternoon, in the South Bay Area of Los Angeles. On this SITE you can find Swinger Parties, GB…
Club Anarchy LA FetLife Group
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • A Group for Swingers in the Los Angeles and OC area. The group meets every other month at Sanctuary Studios, a 7000 sqft Licensed BDSM Dungeon for a special members only event called Club Anarchy. During the event, the dungeon is open for a no rules play party. This means anything goes. SEX, ORAL, ANAL, GANGBANGS, THREESOMES, BONDAGE AND FETISH PLAY. All your fantasies under one roof. Just keep it consensual and respectful. We have atleast 7 of our 10 themed play rooms open and members are invited to bring their toys. Many of the Staff at Sanctuary Studios which includes Professional Dominatrix, Fetish models, and adult film stars frequent our members only events. Mistress Tetra organizes Very special Performances…
Club Swingers
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • If you’re a couple looking for an upscale and catered swinging experience in San Diego City, Club Swingers is the place for you. This exclusive club is designed with couples in mind, offering a high-class atmosphere and top-notch amenities to ensure that you have a memorable and enjoyable night out. Details about the club’s events, amenities, and pricing are currently unavailable, but you can contact Club Swingers via phone or email to learn more. Whether you’re an experienced swinger or new to the scene, Club Swingers is a great place to indulge in your desires and have a wild and unforgettable night out. So if you’re in the mood for some adult fun in the sunny city of San Diego,…
Conejo Valley Swingers
CRAVE Lounge
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Going to CRAVE is just like going to the hottest downtown club, with the added option of being an On Premise Play Party with plenty of ultra clean play rooms. It’s the perfect place for newbies and experienced couples to explore this Lifestyle. We’ve created the ultimate, clean, upscale, low pressure and safe environment. It’s BYOB. Come let our sexy bartenders mix your favorite drink. CRAVE is the best Lifestyle Club ever on the west coast. The only way for you to find out for yourself is to come check it out. You can get all the details by visiting our site or emailing us. Take a look at the pix. The Cleanest, Classiest and best Club anywhere. The dozens…
Dulzura Mansion Events
  • San Diego > Dulzura
  • Dulzura Mansion Events is a Lifestyle positive group where drama free open-minded couples and single females can share & experience sensual pleasures while fulfilling their fantasies in a beautiful, non-pushy environment. This venue is amazing! It is a beautiful private home; where everyone attending can be free to socialize, explore and play (if they choose) with complete privacy and safety. There is no worry about drinking and driving because if you want, you can always stay the night! The luxurious amenities of Dulzura Mansion Events include plenty of room to mingle and dance, a pool and Hut Tub/Spa, surrounded by beautiful landscaping, tennis courts, several play rooms, very nice bar area with a mirrored dance pole.
Exotic Divas
Eyes Wide Shut
  • Riverside > Indian Wells
  • Welcome to Club Eyes Wide Shut. Club EWS is a unique lifestyle event company that provides top quality entertainment while bringing together open-minded couples to connect in a safe, fun and classy environment. At Club EWS, we aim to go above and beyond the traditional lifestyle events and surpass our guests’ expectations. We not only want to create the ultimate lifestyle event, but the overall ultimate lifestyle experience. Please RSVP threw ni[email protected] or call us at 951 210-8167


  • San Bernardino > San Bernardino City
  • Sexy couples and single ladies in a very friendly environment surrounded by great music, state-of-the-art, sound and lighting and B.Y.O.B. bar. On-premise swinger facilities.
Foothill Friends For Fun
Free Mind – Body and Spirit
Freedom Acres
Friends Under Covers


Fun and Sex-y Inc
  • Los Angeles > Chatsworth
  • Welcome to Fun and Sex-y Inc, home of the best swinger and lifestyle events. We based as a los angeles swingers club and lifestyle event organizer in california. Check here for the latest las vegas lifestyle events , San Francisco Swingers club and Events in Nevada, Miami, Florida, Chicago, Illinois and Ohio. We also have tickets to lifestyle cruises and adult lifestyle vacations. About Fun and Sex-y Inc We are a discreet and private group who offers a safe, friendly, fun and sex-y place for people to cum and play. Are you looking to spice things up and make new friends. We are the club for you. Our typical age range for our club is late 30’s to 40’s to…
  • Los Angeles > West Hollywood
  • Our Social Club  is a safe, confidential, highly selective, upscale lifestyle group consisting of reputable like minded couples and singles from all walks of life. The atmosphere we create makes it possible for our members to create friendships that will last for years, while exploring their deepest forbidden sensual impulses and eroticism of the human race. We party like rockstars. FuseX Social Club is not a for-profit organization. All contributions from our  lifestyle events, fundraising platforms, guests and club members goes toward event planning and swingers’ rights legislative lobbying. About us ​Our vision  is to continuously influence statutory policies through a variety of legislative processes while shining  a positive light on consensual adult desires and sexual expressions. We take great satisfaction in assisting sexy men and women cross…
Gary & Margaret’s
  • Riverside > Mira Loma City
  • Welcome to Gary & Margaret’s! CALL SOON & COME PARTY! We host parties each weekend on Saturday & Sunday. We were the first club to host Sunday daytime parties each & every week! & We’ve been hosting fun parties and great folks for many years. Join us, & come have some fun. Just call us to reserve as that keeps the crowd good as well as the balance. We love our regulars & love getting to know new folks too so come make this your new favorite place. We’ve been enjoying all of you at our parties for over 16 years. Over the years we’ve met thousands of wonderful people and we want to thank you all for coming out…
Gemini Social
  • Los Angeles > Pomona City
  • Gemini Social is a sex and swingers club located in Pomona, California. The club is open to all adults who are interested in exploring their sexuality and experiencing the swinging lifestyle. At Gemini Social, we offer a variety of amenities to help our guests relax and have fun, including an indoor and outdoor spa, a pool table, lockers, private and group rooms, and XXX-videos. We also have a special dungeon room for those who are interested in exploring more adventurous and kinky activities. Our club is a place where people can let their hair down and be themselves, without any judgment or pressure. We welcome couples and singles of all ages, races, and sexual preferences, and we encourage everyone to…
Girls Bi The Play Ground
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Bi girls that just want to have fun, also invites couples, but the female must be bi or bi curious females.
Hankie Pankie Lifestyle
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Hankie Pankie has a following of over 1500 members.  We are a upscale classy lifestyle group made up of couples, single ladies and select single males.  Events are hosted once to twice a month throughout Southern California at a variety of venues and locations. We strive to bring to you a lifestyle club filled with just the right amount of elegance, class and naughtiness – all in a comfortable non-pressure environment. Hankie Pankie caters to couples and single ladies 21 and over who are intrigued by experiencing the lifestyle in an elegant setting. We are a private membership club and all profiles need to have membership up to date to attend any events.   You MUST have a valid profile no…
Heffnigga’z House Of Pleasures
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • An Adult club that caters to Couples and Single Females. We try to provide venues, once a month for our members to meet and explore their own desires with like minded people. It is our intent to provide such a venue, that no matter who or what you look like you can be comfortable.
House of Black
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • House of Black is a private social club that hosts unique & exciting kinky erotique lifestyle social & play events every month. Did you want a black swingers club? You got it! The facility features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/large shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. The facility totals over 3,000 sq. ft. To become a member of BlackSwingersClub either contact us at [email protected] or attend one of our many new member socials! Looking for Lifestyle Parties, Kinky Workshops, Alternative Lifestyle Discussion Groups, Sexy Game Nights, Raw Yoga & Lifestyle Socials, Black Club Sex? Then check out our Members Site! We have everything except black swingers porn.
House of Kane
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • A group for sexy and edgy attractive couples, and single females with common erotic interests. No Single Males. Invitation Only parties, meet greets, and workshops are held at The House of Kane.
Hush-Hush Events
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Hush-Hush Events is a group for sexually minded individuals (women, men, and all others between) who want to be part of the larger community of open-minded company. We throw events focused on creating a space in which everyone can talk about their interests in a judgment free zone. Our meet & greets are a great place for newcomers to the lifestyle to meet those who have experimented and fallen in love with their kinky, open minded side. Hush-Hush Events larger events allow for more kinky fun and provide demos, entertainment, games, and luxurious fun. Our top priority is safety and consent. Because we are women, we want to create a space in which women feel welcomed and safe to explore.…
  • Riverside > Riverside City
  • A discrete and private events for people to attend and enjoy in a smaller, more controlled atmosphere of fun and pleasure between like-minded lifestyle enthusiasts.
Inland Elegance
  • Riverside > Moreno Valley City
  • Private house parties once a month. A live DJ, dancing, socializing, snacks and rooms for those who want to play.
Inland Empire Black Swingers
  • Riverside > Riverside City
  • Inland Empire Black Swingers is a club for those people of color in the Riverside, California area who are interested in the swingers lifestyle and want to meet like-minded individuals. The club is open to couples and single women, and is a place for people of color to come together and explore their sexual desires. The club hosts events and parties at various locations, and provides a safe and welcoming environment for members to mingle and get to know each other. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or just starting out, there’s something for everyone at Inland Empire Black Swingers. One of the great things about this club is the sense of community it fosters. Members are encouraged to connect with…
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • A group open to INTERRACIAL swingers. We welcome all black, white, asian, hispanic, and fun swingers, fetishists, kinksters, and freaks. We love you bbw’s, bhm’s, bbc havers and lovers!


  • Los Angeles > Beverly Hills
  • Club Joi is a Members only, Private club. It’s 21 and over. The ONLY On-Premise Lifestyle Club in Los Angeles. Membership is restricted to sexy open-minded sexually liberal Couples and Single Ladies. The Lifestyle Most people go to Lifestyle / Swingers clubs to enhance their love life within their relationship. Long term relationships and Marriages are difficult for everyone. Chris Rock said “There ain’t no happiness nowhere. You’re either single and lonely or married and miserable.” The Lifestyle offers a third more realistic approach. (more below) YOU MUST HAVE MEMBERSHIP BEFORE ATTENDING CLUB JOI. START WITH THE “REQUIRED PROFILE”. You can NOT get membership at the door the night of the event! Please check the “What to Expect” page above…
Kings of Swing
  • California (CA) > Southern California (SoCal)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even sex/swingers clubs can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most swingers clubs and local sex groups have their pages at the place we talk about.

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